Do you need to make changes so love can happen for you? I met my client Mary* less than eight weeks ago. When we first met, she had been involved with a man for months who was not prioritizing her at ALL.
She initiated all of their contacts between dates and was seeing him every couple of weeks, driving an HOUR to see him. She kept wondering when and if she would hear from him and not understand why he wasn’t moving the relationship forward.
Have you experienced this as well?
Well, Mary did what so many us struggle to do. She decided she needed some outside support and hired me to work with her to help figure it out and find real love.
I worked with her to pull back, stop being the one to initiate and really work on her relationship with herself.
Mary took every piece of advice I gave, even the ones she didn’t want to take and the ones that didn’t necessarily feel good or felt counter-intuitive to her.
She had a few days in the beginning where she was like, “Ummm Darcy, are you SURE about this?” “Will this really work?”
She stepped up for herself, took advantage of the 24hr email access to me and asked lots of questions for herself and then tried all of it.
So how is Mary today? KILLING IT. Not only is that first guy TEXTING HER first, she is booked on dates and telling him no now because she is going on so many other dates with other guys.
In the beginning of her coaching, she would have canceled any other plans in order to be with him. But now?
She knows she deserves a man who prioritizes her, and she is waiting to see who that man is.
I could not be more amazed by her progress and how quickly she has grown!
As I write this blog this weekend, Mary has already been on three dates just this weekend and turned that man down.
Next time you hear about Mary, she will be in love and in a serious, committed relationship because she committed to love and did the work.
Do you want what Mary has?
Schedule a call and let’s chat and see how to get you there!