Is your heart the enemy? I spent four years trying everything I could get my hands on. I read books about flirting, books on the male brain, how to write the best online dating profile and took all of the best free advice I could possibly get from online dating coaches.
I remember my email inbox was literally inundated with this coach or that coach, and they all had different strategies about what would work best to enable me to find love.
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The achievement of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it.
~ Mack Douglas
I tried out absolutely everything they would suggest and, yet still, love eluded me. I purchased online courses and devoured e-books and still had men breadcrumbing and ghosting me.
I got more and more confused, up late at night wondering whose advice was right and was LOVE EVER GOING TO HAPPEN FOR ME? (Can you relate?)
I ended up on a free discovery call one day with a coach who was different from all the rest. First of all, I could actually afford her, and our working together wouldn’t break the bank.
Secondly, she didn’t talk to me a lot about my strategy in dating or how I could “score” a guy. She focused a lot on how unhappy this search was making me and what she actually believed was causing all that distress. She didn’t deter me from finding
She didn’t deter me from finding love but actually wanted to make the journey FEEL better. And if I was honest, it had not felt good in a very long time. I had not felt like me in my search for love or felt like I could just be Darcy in my dating experiences.
I desperately wanted a great partner but I wanted to find my man for WHO I was and not for all the great tricks up my sleeve.
She started talking to me about an incredible phenomenon I had never heard of that blocks many people from giving and receiving love. It’s called a Heart Wall.
She explained to me that during times of emotional pain or duress, our hearts can actually become injured or severely hurt and when that happens, we literally put up a wall to protect our heart.
And because you cannot put up a wall out of nothing, the wall is created out of our most common excess energy, our trapped emotions. Many times, this heart wall starts its creation when we are very, very small and doesn’t finish until we are older.
However, it can be made out of our own trapped emotions or out of trapped emotions we inherit at a very young age from people like our mother or father.
Our heart wall is initially created to protect us from further pain. But what actually happens over time is that it keeps all the good stuff out! When our heart is totally shut off like this, we can get blocked from finding love, giving love, and even having financial success.
We are often experiencing depression and anxiety, feel as though life has little joy, have difficulty in relationships, get physical ailments and issues, and much, much more!
The worst part is that we can be doing all the work in the world on the surface and see little to no improvement because our heart is totally blocked from receiving!
When my heart wall was finally released, I found love, better jobs, greater friendships and even more, I was finally happy. I don’t think I have admitted until very recently how unhappy I was until I did that work.
Searching for love for years and not finding it was such a tough journey, especially as a highly sensitive person (HSP) who had a tendency to absorb the fault for not finding love – that being something wrong with ME!
So, what does this have to do with you, you ask? ? Well, for the first time EVER, I am offering the unique and one-time opportunity for people to work with me and have their heart wall completely and totally released.
I have never, ever offered anyone outside of my private clients the chance to work with me on a one-time basis to have this opportunity and I NEVER will AGAIN.
You see, I got married one year ago this month and my heart wall was released only months before I met my husband! So, I am a huge, huge, huge believer in this work!