Before I moved to the Sunshine State to embrace the beach life with my hubby, I resided in the concrete jungle, otherwise known as Houston, TX. Home to country music, really great girlfriends, excellent shopping and yes, HOT guys.
In my life there, I was fortunate enough to live in a great high-rise that a lot of really cute guys lived in. It allowed me prime opportunities to hone my skills at finding love and getting really comfortable with high-quality men.
One of the scenarios that I got really good at, for instance, was how to get a high-quality man to approach YOU. Especially in a city of four and a half million people, where competition is fierce?
Well, that’s what we are going to talk about today…
1) Mindset – Every morning, before I even left the house, I got my mindset right. I had my own set of abundance rituals I used around dating that I would do every day right before I left my home because I knew I was guaranteed to see positive results if I was in the right frame of mind.
I have never, ever mentioned this publicly before, but these abundance rituals worked to get me asked out by a PARTICULAR guy I had seen in the building and then another. They fiercely put me in such a high vibration state that one day I just walked into my building’s coffee bar and got asked out within THREE seconds. Never leave home without em’. ?
2) Mental Blocks – I feverishly cleared blocks I had that other women in Houston were better than me, prettier than me, more deserving than me or were COMPETITION for me. I went from believing every woman would win over me to believing that I would have my fair share of great, high-quality men and that is exactly what I got. I became amazing at clearing blocks, and the men started to pour in.
3) Techniques – I learned specific techniques to get guys to approach me. I learned that men, like us, are looking but need an “in”. They need to know that they can WIN and so we need to drop the white handkerchief, so to speak, and show them that if they approach us, they will walk away winning. If you do not do this in an obvious way, a man will not approach you and you will walk away from a missed opportunity.
4) Smile – I learned that if you look at him, smile, look away and look back slowly and give him another veeeeery slow smile, many men like this. Add to this putting away your phone, opening up your body language and separating yourself from the herd, and you have given him a shot. There are about twenty other things you can do to encourage a man to approach you but, hey, I can’t give away all of my secrets for free!
5) Awareness – I became aware that many women are so afraid of rejection, so afraid of being turned down and so afraid of being hurt that most of them are either huddled together, hunched over the phones and laptops or would rather DIE than make eye contact with a really attractive man. It became clear to me that the women who are following these suggestions are the ones moving to beaches in Florida, getting married this June or hiring love coaches to move past this.
I have some of the loveliest clients who are deeply in love, married or on the verge of finding love because they are so committed to healing their inside blocks.
Your only obstacle is you. I repeat, your only obstacle is you.
What would your life look like if you knew how to get a man to approach you organically? Anywhere you went?
Let’s find out! Book a call and get on my calendar today ONLY!