As someone who has attracted a true Alpha man and was quickly proposed to, I can say there is a lot to be said for why feminine essence is such a “buzz phrase” in our society today.
If you want one of these amazing, masculine men, I urge you to keep reading.
For those of you who want a Beta male, I have included snippets of why feminine energy can bring your love in quicker and better. Enjoy!
1) Women who are steeped in feminine energy can attract BOTH an Alpha male and a Beta male with Alpha qualities – basically, the best of both worlds. However, you need to be really clear about what kind of guy you want because sexual polarity in a long-term relationship is really, really important. Getting too off track for too long is what has derailed many a relationship. Yes, we all have BOTH feminine and masculine energy within us but we are usually all dominant in one. Knowing which one you are more dominant in and which one your partner is as well, is critical to maintaining sexual polarity.
2) Tapping into your feminine essence is fun and can boost you into being a vibrational match to your man more quickly. Why? Because tapping into your feminine energy is about getting out of your head and into your heart/body so you feel GOOD. It’s about doing stuff like dancing, playing in the ocean, laughing, cuddling with animals/babies, connecting to all your senses, eating chocolate, getting massages, etc. Women who are struggling to create the love they want are usually in the headspace of “where is he, where is he” and need to get into the heart space of “ahhhhh, I have all the love I need right HERE.” Doesn’t that just feel better?
3) Feminine energy is all about receiving. Receiving pleasure, gifts, compliments, love or whatever suits you and lights you up. Women who have been having a hard time manifesting love do not usually have a hard time with the creation piece or the desire part. Their issue is the allowing part. So, the more you can practice receiving NOW, guess what? The faster you start bringing your man in, as well! Start saying “yes” to every compliment, every door opened, dinner paid for and much, much more. Raise your allowance frequency!
4) Get in touch with your emotions. Feminine energy is all about the heart and emotions. Masculine men, true masculine men, connect to women in their heart space because it gives these men permission to go into their heart – a permission our society doesn’t often give them.
Personally, I believe this is why so many men struggle with anger. Wouldn’t you if no one ever created a space for you to express your feelings?? It is why I do so much work with my clients about mastering emotions and creating a space safe for a man so that he can connect with you in this place. Emotions can be really scary. A lot of us were not taught how to feel our emotions as children or, worse, were told that our emotions were not valid or were wrong.
Start the work today of learning to recognize your emotions and honoring them. Whatever they are. This not only helps you now but will help your love experience be very powerful and will ensure longevity in your partnership.
5) Have fun and be playful. Feminine energy is about laughter, vulnerability, and joy. There is nothing sexier to a man than a happy woman. Why? Masculine men LIVE to make their women happy! Men are constantly proposing, marrying, committing quickly and falling in love early with happy women. It does not mean you have to walk around with your head in the clouds every day, but it does mean if you want to get a high-quality, Alpha male to commit to you, you have to commit to your own happiness and make it a priority.
Don’t you just want to put yourself first anyway? There are a couple of benefits for this that I will throw out there to entice you. One, when you are focused on your own happiness, the Universe is matching your vibration with all kinds of cool things. Two, when you are loving all up on yourself, SO IS YOUR MAN. So, you do the work and the Universe and your man match it! What a win that is!
6) Men do not like to be controlled or chased, no matter who they are. Period. Plus, feminine energy is all about you getting to lean back, relax, let him lead and enjoy all of the benefits of being courted the way you deserve to be.
If you struggle with this, guess what? I am here to help! And the feminine ALLOWS herself to receive help!